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Showing posts with label Modesty. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Modesty. Show all posts

Thursday, January 19, 2017

Conceit Spoils

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You have a good many little gifts and virtues, but there is no need of parading them, for conceit spoils the finest genius. There is not much danger that real talent or goodness will be overlooked long, and the great charm of all power is modesty.


~ Louisa May Alcott, from Little Women

Painting ~ Vanity 1910, John William Waterhouse 1849-1917

Sunday, August 9, 2015

Dress Like You Mean It

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Commenting today on something most will not understand. If you're not a follower of Jesus Christ, you just won't get it. I don't expect you to. This post isn't for you. But for those gals who desire to have everything you do bring glory to His name, I want to encourage you to dress like you mean it.

As followers of Jesus the Christ, the totality of our purpose is to make Him known, not ourselves. To magnify Him, not ourselves. To have people notice Him--not us, not our bodies. Especially, I repeat, especially when we're gathered together in corporate worship. Our motives, our mission in life affects what we wear when we come to worship. 

With our whole being, we come to worship. I know many of you know that. Many of you desire that and live that. For the more naive, I implore you to please let our men focus on worship. I want to be able to focus on worship as well. I do not want to see your cleavage. I do not want to see your rear end. I do not want to see your big belly, soon-to-be mama (even though I respect the new life within you). I do not want to see you poured into your clothes and see every hill and valley, or see your clothes barely hanging on you and hoping they don't fall off. I want to see your God. I want to see your Savior working in and through you.

I know what the prevailing style is. I also know why it's the prevailing style. I think you do, too. 

So, let's kick it up a notch. Dress like we mean it. Full throttle on mission. 

And keep looking upward.
~ Vickie 
Painting ~ Love Letters, Charles Trevor Garland 1855-1906

Thursday, July 7, 2011

The Modesty and Domestic Virtues of Women

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Abigail Adams, Gilbert Sullivan

I thought about taking up the American flag out by the mailbox yesterday evening as I came in from church that I'd stuck in the ground especially for Independence Day. Decided to leave it just a few more days and began to reflect again on that hot, muggy day (as these past few days have been) in July, 235 years ago, when fifty-six men pledged to each other their lives, their fortunes, and their sacred honor as they signed and supported the Declaration of Independence from foreign rule. In doing so, they appealed “to the Supreme Judge of the world for the rectitude of our intentions.” Those who signed their names were to be persecuted as outlaws by their military enemies. If the struggle for independence was unsuccessful, they knew there would be certain death as traitors to the Crown of England.

Many of these men lost everything—their homes, their property, their families, their health. A bounty price was set for the capture of John Hancock and Samuel Adams. Some of the signers had their homes burned and property destroyed; one man’s wife was imprisoned and eventually died from the hardships; others were harassed and left impoverished; another had to be constantly on the run, and his wife died of exposure and the unceasing strain.

It cost these men a great deal to be a signer of that great document. But let us not forget that it cost their wives a great deal as well, as we read in Wives of the Signers, published by Wallbuilders Press:
"... yet rarely a complaint do we find in their correspondence. On the other hand, the letters and other recorded utterances of the wives of the signers breathe the utmost devotion not only to their husbands but to the great cause for which their husbands had thrown life and fortune in the balance."
On June 20, 1776, Abigail Adams wrote to reassure her husband, John, in Philadelphia:
I feel no anxiety at the large armament designed against us. The remarkable interpositions of heaven in our favor cannot be too gratefully acknowledged. He who fed the Israelites in the wilderness, who clothes the lilies of the field and who feeds the young ravens when they cry, will not forsake a people engaged in so right a cause, if we remember His loving kindness.  
~ America's God and Country by William J.Federer

June 2, 1778—From the Autobiography of John Adams.
From all that I had read of History and Government, of human Life and manners, I had drawn this Conclusion, that the manners of Women were the most infallible Barometer, to ascertain the degree of Morality and Virtue in a Nation. All that I have since read and all the observations I have made in different Nations, have confirmed me in this opinion. The Manners of Women, are the surest Criterion by which to determine whether a Republican Government is practicable, in a Nation or not. The Jews, the Greeks, the Romans, the Swiss, the Dutch, all lost their public Spirit, their Republican Principles and habits, and their Republican Forms of Government, when they lost the Modesty and Domestic Virtues of their Women.

If the manners of women is, in reality, the ‘infallible barometer’ of the practicality of a republican form of government, what could be said of the modesty and domestic virtues of the women of our era for the cause of America’s form of government?

The manners of the women of 1776 helped change the course of history, and to those women and to their husbands America is indebted...and to the Supreme Judge of the world for the rectitude of their intentions.

An excellent wife, who can find? For her worth is far above jewels. 
The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. 
She does him good and not evil all the days of her life.   
Proverbs 31: 10-12

Painting ~ Abigail Adams 1810, Gilbert Sullivan 1755-1828
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Tuesday, May 24, 2011

The Beauty of a Modest Heart


Warm weather is here. It was nice to sit out on the back porch for a while last evening and do a little reading. But with the coming on of warm weather is also the coming off of clothes for many of the young (and not so young) gals. I was reminded that summer is pretty nigh here as I was out running errands. Sometimes it's just plain difficult to try to pay at the check-out counter when you don't want to look below their chin level. We have very little modesty left in our current culture, very little embarrassment of what is showing, very little awareness that just maybe other people don't really want to see what's being displayed.

The sad thing is that it's not just in the marketplace, it's in the church pew as well. Sometimes I pick where I sit based on the exposure in my field of vision. It ought not to be this way. Church, especially, ought to be a place where our Christian brothers don't have to face these temptations.

Modest dress is the outward expression of a modest heart, as we're told in I Timothy 2:9-10:
"... likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness--with good works."
Heart attitudes are revealed in what we wear because behind what we wear is the why of what we wear. What we are wearing or not wearing, displaying or not displaying, emphasizing or not emphasizing, is an expression of our heart.

Some would say, "I'll wear whatever I please." That's the point--it's all about me. Have they considered the people who have to look at them? Probably not with that attitude. Some would say, "I just think this outfit is cute." Naivety wrecks many a gal. Some would say, "I like to make the guys look." In fact, lust is posh and pushed by the culture. People are topsy-turvy confused, and immorality is rampant as result.

But for a follower of Christ, it's different--if the heart is in tune with His word. We're told that modesty "is proper for women who profess godliness." We make the gospel believable when how we dress reflects inward godliness. This is a profession of our faith. This is how people are convinced that what we say we believe is reality. This is the beauty of a modest heart.
A woman's greatest loveliness comes through a modest heart, and a modest heart expresses itself in modest behavior, modest dress, modest reactions, and modest attitudes. ~ Nancy Leigh DeMoss
Nancy spent a few days on this subject on Revive Our Hearts. If you'd like to listen in, just click the image below. She'd love to have you drop in.


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